forgiveness - Page 2

Ti · 02-06-2010, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by viethai

When i think about how she cheated on me, i get so angry and feel betrayed, but deep down i still have alot of feeling for her, and don't want thing to end yet, but everybody around me saying end it right now!! don't know what to do!!!

F-her man she scew you over lol XD anywho....... my heart is like steal with a lock on it and inside that steal is a jello all wiggly -.- the girl is the key to my wiggly jello lol =] so i would forgive but i don't about bening friends and or even talk to her. if she like or love me then ok but sticking around me and saying i love you and i miss you like that and then she cheat on you f that shit lol

**skylinez** · 02-06-2010, 06:13 PM

i know it's hard to get away from the feeling that you have for her and the memories that you spent time being together with her, but you have two choices to decide which one you want to do: First, you have to let her go and move on with your life and find someone else that can give you true love, because you will waste your time and get nothing to be with her, eventhough, she is with you but her mind is still thinking of the other guy. You can keep her body but not her heart and her mind. Second, if you think that you cannot forget her, and if she is the one that wanna go back with you, then give her one more chance, but you have to be strict on her, you have to make sure that she is not contact with that guy, in order to do that, you need to follow wherever she goes and check on whatever she does that relate to the other guy .You have to do this for awhile. You can try the second choice, but my advice is "DONT PUT TOO MUCH LOVE ON HER ANYMORE" because it's gonna hurt you when it happen again, and get more worse.

Ti · 02-06-2010, 11:34 PM

For me personally im not a type of guy to be strict on girl i like them to be free i don't boss them around or tell when what to do, she don't have to do what i say although she would be naturally just do it lol =] that why i love my girl so much =] cuz she know how i am and she is faithful =D....But if there that one special person the key is to the relationship is trust =] without it you could be end up she cheating on you or something lol

**vyvan** · 02-10-2010, 05:08 PM

You can forgive but can't forget dude.

**minhvo6841** · 03-08-2010, 03:20 PM

well! love it not easy

**yellowcat87** · 03-20-2010, 08:40 AM

well it hard but if u find they cheat on you, it hard to forgive caz everything it not the same anymore caz you know that ur gf/bf cheating on..... You shouldnt forgive them and move on...

artemyst · 07-09-2010, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by viethai

When i think about how she cheated on me, i get so angry and feel betrayed, but deep down i still have alot of feeling for her, and don't want thing to end yet, but everybody around me saying end it right now!! don't know what to do!!!

Just wondering if you have this situation resolved. I just want to help a friend who is in the same situation as you, thanks.

Misenttram2010 · 07-16-2010, 11:02 PM

hey, i got no place to tell u wat u have to or should do, but if you really love her and she love you back, than give it a second chance. who knows, she might realize her mistakes and really cherish the relationship this time around.
and Forgiveness is important, learning to forgive wouldnt hurt, but if u dont then u might really lose something precious in your life.
talk it with her, tell her how u feel, she if both of u ready for a second chance

**viethai** · 07-25-2010, 12:15 PM

thanks for the good advice, after the situation i have taken a trip and think about it, and afterward i have decided i still want to give it another try and give her a chance to prove to me that she want to be with me, and so far the second chance i gave her had been pretty good.